Hi Oddsock,
I'm not a medic, but assume that bladder cancer is not confirmed, which is why your husband is having the biopsy. I'm not a medic, but know that bladder cancer, if it turns out to be that,  is very often curable. 
It will be a long 23 days. But you will get through it. And you will feel better once you know what you are dealing with. 
Wishing you and your husband the very best. Harry.  

Hi Harry

Yep, nothing confirmed it was noticed in his cystocopy appointment. Thank-you for replying. All a bit too real.

Sorry this is something familiar to you too.

It is. The waiting is horrible. And there's not much people can say to help, except that everyone somehow manages to tough it out, and you will feel better once you know what you are dealing with.
Just remember, even if it is bladder cancer, there is a great chance your husband will be cured. 

It is. The waiting is horrible. And there's not much people can say to help, except that everyone somehow manages to tough it out, and you will feel better once you know what you are dealing with.
Just remember, even if it is bladder cancer, there is a great chance your husband will be cured.