My daughter who is 33 weeks pregnant has just been diagnosed with cancerous tumour in her nasal passage which is to be operated on in 3 weeks, she has to get a C-section having baby early, I'm at my wits end trying to cope with the news. I feel so heartbroken that she has a very difficult time ahead of her. She also has two other little ones under age of 4, I'm worrying about them all, including my son in law who is wonderful but very upset. I have so many questions I don't want to stress them both out asking. I'm obviously there to support whatever way they wish but my head is exploding with the stress, I feel selfish as it's nothing compared to what they're obviously coping with. I don't know where to turn to get my mind in a focused state.