Hi everyone. Really stuck in a horrible place right now. My husbands lung cancer has spread to his brain. We went to see our consultant who did radiotherapy on his lung in July. We thought that John would be made a mask and booked in for his treatment but instead, the consultant told us that the treatment may not work and John may have awful side effects so we might want to consider staying on the chemotherapy and taking steroids to ease the symptoms of the brain tumours. We were in tears and in the end John decided to carry on as he is for as long as he can. Having talked for hours and had some sleep we're having second thoughts. I don't want him to suffer anymore than he has to, but if there's a small chance the radiotherapy could give him more time I want him to have it. How can you make such an awful choice and know that it's the right one.