Our Dad is 69 and dying with metastatic bowel cancer. In his lungs and liver. Given 4 to 6 months in November. Still fighting despite declining chemo after initial round made him feel terrible. Love him so much but worst time of our lives and feels cruel watching him waste away and every week getting frailer. He is fighting to stay with us and his grandsons but recently tearing me and my sister apart as we have different opinions on some stuff. Never knowing what to expect from week to week is exhausting but don't want my Dad to die. Honestly don't know what worse , our mum dying suddenly very young or watching Dad die slowly .