I work offshore for 2 week home for 3 and my sister lives in Auz. My Mum have being doing great as she is 76 herself. She has always been very non stop busy but we manage to get Dad into a Hospice for 2 weeks to sort his pain out and respite for Mum, but she has become more hyper finding jobs in the house that really are not that urgent and she is getting really stress. She gets angry if I try to discuss and does not see these thing can be left for now. She won't listen and if I help to get them done she fines more.
I'm really worried as she is looking quite un well and can't get her to slow down. She is burning herself out.
She has kidney disease so should not be getting stressed and sending her blood pressure through the roof.
Don't know who to talk to. Just need some help, don't know what to do.
Dad has improve loads in the Hospice but Mum is going down hill.
Dean