Hello Angmasrsh

I'm sorry to hear about your bf's diagnosis and that he is currently quite unwell in hospital. It sounds like it's been a really difficult time for you both. 

When people are stressed, anxious, and worried, it's natural that they can say things that they might not usually say. Or to take things that are said to them more to heart. 

Hopefully, now the two of you have had some time apart to think about what each of you have said, you may be able to find a way forward to reconnect again. 

Perhaps you can send a text message to say that you're thinking of him and ask how he is doing. Sometimes it's important to give people the space they need but if it's what you want then you can also let him know that you are there for him if he needs you. 

I do hope that the situation improves for you both soon. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator