Brain cancer end of life

Family member is at the end of their life. Fully aware. Just had radiotherapy on her head, just to prolong her life as much as she could. She's trying to do everything and anything. She's not capable in ways. But she's adement on doing stuff. I can only imagine she is scared. Who wouldn't be. I'm not sure what I'm suppose to do. Do I let her do whatever she wants. Even if it's too much for her. ? Do I convince her to rest more. ? Is she killing herself more quickly by over doing things ? I literally don't know how I can help her ? 

  • Hi Abish and welcome to Cancer Chat, although I'm really sorry to hear your family member is in the latter stages of their diagnosis.

    This must be an incredibly difficult time, but I do hope the radiotherapy she has just had is able to give you more time together.

    We have a lot of members within our community who know just how challenging supporting a loved one at this stage can be, so you are not alone Abish, and I'm sure it won't be long until some of them stop by to offer you their support and advice.

    We also have a team of cancer nurses available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m if you'd like to discuss any of this with them. They are very easy to talk to and will do all they can to answer your questions.

    I'm not sure if you have come across this charity already, but if not, you may be able to get further information and advice from The Brain Tumour Charity.

    Do keep posting if you find it helpful Abish and remember that we will always be here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator