Morning, how do I support my inlaws now that my father in law has been diagnosed with bowel and bladder cancer. They're in their 90s and have all their faculties but physically old. He was only diagnosed Wednesday and as I was waiting for my husband to join me I haven't really mentioned anything. I have never in 35 years heard him threaten his wife so I'm thinking is he finally realising what's happening. How can we start that conversation? Please any good opening lines would help but he's a proud old man and it isn't easy as we live in England and they're in Glasgow normally(up he now as we had a holiday booked and I came up to support them before procedure). Many thanks Bridgette