Hello Jane

I'm sorry to hear that your husband has had some health concerns recently that have meant he's now waiting for a cystoscopy on Monday. It's perfectly understandable that you're feeling anxious, particularly as you've already had the experience of a loved one being diagnosed with cancer. 

We know that for many people this period of waiting for tests and results can be really difficult. and, naturally, our minds can wander to a worst-case scenario. Trying to keep busy can help. You might find it useful to read this thread about how to cope with waiting for news. 

Whatever the news is on Monday, worrying won't change that. It will however leave you both feeling more stressed and out of sorts over the weekend. So try to stay positive and hopefully the team will be able to give you both some reassurance about things in just a few days. 

Keep in touch Jane and let us know how the appointment goes. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator