Hi, my husband has been ignoring his symptoms. Cannot swallow properly, pain and bloody sputum with cough. He has been ignoring hospital appointments for endoscopy and chest X-ray. He got red letter appointments from hospital but didn’t go. A new appointment has been organised for tomorrow. I want to go with him but he says he will go on his own. We have 5 children. He is almost 50 years old. I am worried as he is losing weight and not eating. He keeps telling me everything is fine. I think he is ignoring it. I am scared as I think if he has cancer of oesophagus it has spread to his lungs as he has bloody sputum with a cough. It might be incurable……am so worried and anxious. Hospital appointment tomorrow for xray. Will he know tomorrow if something is wrong? He will not let me go with him. Then straight after he is going to work so I won’t see him until the evening…….I don’t know what to do
