Caring for my Dad who is battling cancer for the 3rd time and just started melanoma treatment

He was diagnosed in August 2023.  Only just being treated at the end of March 2024 with any surgery.  I am so angry and upset for the delay on the melanoma.  He is battling Cancer for the 3rd time.  First bowel, then lung now skin. 

The treatment plan has been so delayed ready to sue for the 6 month wait.  

  • Hello Summer2024, 

    A warm welcome to our forum. You have a right to be upset and angry about this long delay - it's a long time to have to wait for treatment. Your poor dad battling cancer a 3rd time in different places; he must be exhausted and the delays in the treatment plan really don't help. 

    It can be so hard for family, friends and carers to witness all this and it's easy to feel powerless when things don't go accordingly to plan, when treatment is delayed and I really hope that now that he has finally started his treatment for melanoma that it will go well for him and be effective. 

    If there is ever anything you want to discuss or ask our cancer nurses, they are only a free phone call away on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their helpline is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

    We're thinking of you during this difficult time. I've added a little more information to the title of your thread so that it provides a little more context and therefore might attract more replies from other members who have looked after a loved one with cancer or who have been affected by melanoma.

    Best wishes and best of luck to your dad with his treatment, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator