In shock

Hi my husband was diagnosed with hodgkiins lymphoma advanced 3 months ago .We are still waitjng on test results pet scan bone marrow results.Hes 60 a fit marathon runner .we are both devastated hes very tired and not able to run like he used to. Hes down and angry and snappy.I seem to iritate him when i ask medical questions with professionals he wont ask questions .Hes always been grumpy victor mildrew is his nick name .I am 65 still working in care i am disabled knee replacement in r knee and in need of a hip replacement  r hip.I am trying my best with him is any one struggling like this .

  • Hi Snoozie,

    I'm sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Being diagnosed with cancer can be difficult to process so I can imagine that it's been tough for you both. It can also affect your emotions and may have come as a shock to your husband, particularly as it sounds like he is an active person. You can read about how cancer can make people feel on our website. Communication will be key at this time so it's important you make him aware of how you're feeling and hopefully he can open up to you, keep at it. If you wanted to look up information, we have information on hodgkins lymphoma on our website, as well as advice for carers, which I hope will be useful. Our team nurses are also available, if you wanted to speak to someone. You can call the freephone 0808 800 4040, lines are open 9 to 5 Monday to Friday.

    Best wishes,

    Moderator Anastasia