My brother in law had his bladder removed because of cancer on the 29/1/2024,  After the removal he came home for recovery, unfortunately last week he wa admitted to the hospital with infection an blood clots in both legs and feet, having now blood thinner injections to treat the blood clots.  In men time free MRI scans and other tests they found out that the cancer has spread to his back bone and ribs, doctor told him no us that there is nothing they can do for him no that he’s going to die (they didn’t give us a time that he might have left ) it was a shock to all of us,  as the doctors can only make him comfortable with pain management until he dies.  In about. Weeks time hospital will start to prepare him to come home, but my sister don’t want him to come home a she says that she’s not ble to care for him a she has work and two underage daughter to care for.  My brother in law just wants to come home to be with his family until the end of his days, but my sister is refusing to take him home, she’s talking to the doctors to arrange for him to go to this special place where they send patients that te dying.  I don’t really understand my sisters decision, she has a 16 yet and 12 year old daughters, she says that she needs to think of them (i don’t grew with her decision on this matter), my brother in law should be ble to come home no sty the rest of his days with family where he belongs not somewhere away from family, his life is already going, the leat we can do is help,him though this sadden time of his last days, months or even few years.

what advice  can you give  me, please help as this is very confusing and he’s only 57 years old, and we are not ready for him to die yet.

thank you very much