Hello HallB

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis and the situation that you find yourself in. Caring for a loved one can be lonely and it's understandable that you may be feeling adrift in the midst of this situation. 

When your husband was given his initial diagnosis, were you given details for a clinical nurse specialist at the hospital? If so then do give them a call as even though your husband doesn't have an appointment there, they will still be a good source of information. You could ask the nurses that visit to take bloods for some advice or alternatively, give his GP a call. Explain how you are feeling and that you have questions about his diagnosis and care and would like to speak with someone. 

It sounds like you could do with some additional support so do reach out to someone involved in his care. Or if you find that you're unable to do that, then as a family member or friend if they can make contact with the hospital or GP surgery on your behalf. 

If you'd like to talk with one of our nurses for some advice and support you are most welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any help they can. 

I do hope that you're able to access some additional support soon. Keep in touch HallB and let us know how you're both doing. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator