85yr old Aunt has bowel cancer,going to widen bowel so she can eat and drink again , somehow i think this will not happen,just been diagnosed but because of age operating etc is too invasive.we have been told that they think palative care is now the best route for her and just to make her comfortable.
Has heart problems now,she is also a kidney dialysis patient.she was married to my mothers brother they never had family,my mother is her next of kin,my mother is in her late 70s and has cognitive problems can hardly speak,we do not know how long my Aunt has left ,visiting my Aunt who is in hospital today ,hope to get answers to some of our questions,at the minute it seems so overwhelming for me and my mam.Do not know where to start.
