My mum has “ the above “ . 
this is her second tumour. 
10 years ago she had her first cancer . It was in her womb . 
she’s had a complete hysterectomy ( inc lymph nodes, ovaries, fallopian tubes). It was stage 1a , grade 3 . 
she’s recently been diagnosed with 1 tumour of metastatic endometrial clear cell carcinoma but it’s in her lower bowel ( distal sigmoid ) which is the same cell as her previous womb cancer . 
I have contacted her Mc Milan nurse. 

mum has had an MRI AND PET SCAN. 
I’m not satisfied I ( plus both my parents) are concerned they aren’t being completely honest. 

I asked what stage is this cancer at 
they state “ we don’t stage or grade cancers now “ 

they are saying it’s the same stage/grade as 10 years ago . 

her oncologist said they could do open surgery, remove the affected bowel and she’d have a stoma bag . 

now they say she’s having keyhole. Plus stoma bag . And saying my mum must’ve Miss heard him before. 
They diagnosed in may 2023 

no surgery until 20 th October 2023 ! 

bowel surgeon hasn’t been in touch. 
mums had ct scan yesterday. She was meant to have a MRI but they refused ( as she had stitches in her eye lid ). 
eye dept not taking stitches out until 22nd sept! 
oncologist said “ well we’ve got until 20th oct to get the MRI ! 

my mums having more pain all over her abdomen and slight blood  loss from her bowels ( which they are aware of). 

to me they’re messing her around and I feel there’s more to this than they’re telling us