My brother in law has had a diagnosis of stage 4 bowel, liver and lung cancer. He's constantly tired, barely eating compared to how he did. Insists he has no pain and refuses medical help. He is disabled and we are trying to care for him. But he insists he's okay. Even though he's becoming incontinent and has developed jaundice. We haven't broken the news to him as he's recently lost his mum to cancer and that's why he's with us now. But we're worried about him and think he should have some medical intervention. But we're scared that if he sees a doctor they might recommend he goes to hospital and may not come out. Anyone else been in this position. We don't want to force him, but are we just putting off the inevitable. He's 53 and mentally disabled with epilepsy as well.