Brother was diagnosed with colon cancer

Hey internet strangers,

I feel like here is a good place to let my heavy feelings out into the world. Maybe sharing them here can expose me to critical information from other people's stories that could help my brother fight cancer.

The story is this:

About several months months ago, my brother who's only 36 years old had started feeling pain in his stomach. He's a fit man who regularly exercising and healthy overall. After going to the hospital he had a cyst drained and released home. They even took a CT scan for the stomach back then and didn't detect anything but the cyst. Over the following couple of months he's been experiencing tolerable pain in his stomach which at first thought to be from the cyst drain procedure.

Fast forward to now, he had a CT scan and had biopsies taken from abs and colon after his colon was blocked during an exam. There seems to be 2 tumors, a main tumor in the colon area which I think is around 4cm, and one in the abs area which is like 2.5cm. I'm not sure but it seems to be stage 3 or 4.
His liver and lungs seem clean after scans, hopefully it's a good sign.

My family don't have history of colon cancer, and this all came as a shock to us and we're still overwhelmed and don't know how to act really much.

We're currently waiting for the final diagnosis to determine the treatment strategy.

I feel like sharing it here to get it off my chest and perhaps receive information that could help my family and my brother win this war. Hopefully even hear success stories that defied odds and what might have helped win this war.

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  • Hello qainzardo

    I'm so sorry to hear about your brother's diagnosis. It's understandable that you're worried and feeling overwhelmed by things. 

    It's good to hear that the scans haven't given any cause for concern about your brother's lungs and liver and hopefully, this will mean that more treatment options will be available to him. 

    We know that for many people this period of uncertainty and waiting for news can be difficult. Have they given your brother an indication of when he may hear some more news? Hopefully, it won't be too long. 

    If it would help you, or your brother, to talk things through with someone you're most welcome to call our team of nurses to talk things through with them. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information, and support they can. If you'd like to talk with them they're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Keep in touch and let us know how things are progressing. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

  • Thanks for the kind words.

    This coming week my brother's is gonna meet up with an oncologist and colon cancer specialists to come up with a strategy.

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