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Allowing space for feelings

Morganna2017
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My husband is living with stage 4 incurable bowel cancer at 45 after many surgery’s and treatments. DX oct 22 with est 2 year prognosis.

Treatment is working as well as we could hope and we have lots of holidays planned to enjoy with our young family.

The issue is he’s struggling to enjoy as his emotions are understandably all over the place. 

Any advice on how we can hold space for these emotions whilst being able to find the joy?

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat Morganna although I'm really sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis and estimated prognosis.

    I can't begin to imagine how difficult this must be but I'm glad you've joined us as so many of our members will understand the vast array of emotions your husband may be contending with at the moment, so you are not alone, and hopefully you will receive some support and advice from our community soon.

    Our team of cancer nurses are available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m if you'd like to discuss this with them but if you haven't done so already, it may be worth getting in touch with Marie Curie as they offer care, support and guidance to anyone living with a terminal illness.

    We're thinking of you Morgana and hope you and your family create some wonderful and treasured memories on your holidays.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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