A person I loved a few years ago...

This woman and I had a bit of our life together, I heard recently she had cancer in different parts of her body, inoperable of course, we were getting along fine until she asked how I had got her phone number, she denies allowing me to have it but I know we passed our numbers, she has been in some terrible moods over it, I just thought this might be part of her brain being affected with cancerous cells, I have agreed with her not to bother going to see her, I do think her illness is clouding her thoughts and she does not mean it.

What does anyone think I should do?

  • Hello Geordie9 and welcome to the forum.

    I'm sorry to hear about your friend's diagnosis and for the impact it is having on your relationship. This must be very tough.

    Hopefully some of our members who have found themselves in a similar situation will stop by when they can to offer their thoughts and advice but in the meantime, we're thinking of you Geordie and hope you're able to figure out what to do soon.

    Best wishes to you both at this difficult time.

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator