Grandad deteriorating

My grandad has been slowly deteriorating over the last couple of years however since the beginning of this year, when his treatment was stopped, this has become more rapid. He is currently on a high steroid dose which I think is masking lots of symptoms & this is slowly being decreased over the coming months. I understand the effect this will have on him but my worry is that he is currently fighting the deterioration. He is upset and frightened about what’s happening & doesn’t feel like he can leave us. I want to tell him that he doesn’t need to worry about us and that it will be okay. But I don’t know how. I am so proud of him & I don’t want him to feel like this towards the end. 

  • A very warm welcome to the Cancer Chat community Alou although I'm sorry to hear about your grandad.

    This must be very difficult but I'm glad you've joined us as you will find a lot of support and advice from our members who have been on this journey with their loved ones, so you are not alone and hopefully you will receive some replies soon.

    Talking about dying can be very challenging but I hope the information I've provided will help. You can also talk things through with one of our cancer nurses on 0808 800 4040. Their phone lines are open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they'll do all they can to support you at this time. 

    We're thinking of you Alou and sending all our strength your way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator