Not strong enough for Chemo.

Hi,

Never posted like this before. My husband has Pancreatic Cancer, it is inoperable as had moved into the duct and main artery. He had a stent fitted at year in the bile duct and started chemotherapy in June. He had a break over Christmas,  then since new year when he restarted he hasn't been great. He stopped for  break in February as he was unwell. He was taken into hospital and treated for jaundice and and infection.  New stent was fitted and he was pumped with fluids and allowed home. After a few good days at home he started getting lots of back and side pain again, could get more than 1 or 2hrs sleep and his appetite dropped. Symptom control team were called in and today we have seen his oncologist. He has been signed off of chemo for 4 more weeks and will revisit. The Dr said to me that it's important we make him comfortable at home, although the scans show a stable tumor, his deteriorating health and his blood markers show progression nd that he expects that things will get harder from here. Does this mean that I should expect him to be able to continue chemo? Am I preparing myself for end stage Cancer? Why do I always feel ill I come out of these appointments with more questions than answers! My husband is under the impression he will be fine nd will.be able to continue treatment in a few weeks, I'm not so sure. Am I being pessimistic? Can anyone shed any light or offer advice?

 

Thanks 

Jodie 

  • Hello Jolo

    I'm so sorry to hear about all that you and your husband have been through over the past year. It sounds like it's been particularly difficult over the last few months and it's understandable that you have some questions and concerns about what the future holds. 

    From your post, it does sound as if the Dr is trying to prepare you both for the fact that your husband's health is declining and that treatment options may be limited. 

    You mention that you feel like you have a lot of unanswered questions. Does your husband have a clinical nurse specialist? If so then do give them a call. They are there to support you both. 

    If not then you're most welcome to give our team of nurses a call and chat with them about some of your concerns. Whilst they may not be able to answer all your questions, I'm sure they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information, and support they can. They will be back in the office after the Easter weekend available on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm. 

    I hope that you get some clarity soon and that your husband remains comfortable at home. 

    Sending you both my best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator