My Mother was misdiagnosed for 8 months

Hello, my name is Luca, I'm an 18 year old student from Manchester and I'm currently battling with the news I've recently been told about my mother having bowl cancer. 

My 49 year old mum was misdiagnosed and told she "just had anxiety" for 8 months straight, even after being in and out of A&E every other week with excruciating stomach pain.

I can't describe how knowing that she's had it all this time makes me feel. I feel outraged. The fact that the doctors turned her away severel times and dismissed it as "simply just anxiety and nothing else" is infuriating beyond words. 

At this current moment we're not too sure what the plan is going forward but from what I know so far she's going to have an opperation to remove the tumour within her bowls. Hopefully if it hasn't spread then she will be okay.

I'm not the only person who is distraught over the recent news. I have a 31 year old sister and a 15 year old brother who are completely lost for words and are unsure on how to cope with it. 

My hope is to spread awareness of misdiagnoses that can occur when it comes to cancer. My mother isn't the first to have this happen to her either, many other people within the UK are wrongly misdiagnosed. It's not right and not fair that someone should have to loose their life just because doctors don't have time to properly diagnosed patients, so they label any condition with "Anxiety". Especially after the fairly recent passing of my grandad 7 months ago who also had bowl cancer. 

 

  • Hello Luca, 

    Welcome to Cancer Chat! I am so sorry to hear your mum was diagnosed with bowel cancer and that she was misdiagnosed for so long before and was told she just anxiety for 8 months. I can understand why you are feeling outraged that all this time she was told it was nothing to worry about when it was actually bowel cancer. 

    I hope that the operation to remove the tumour is a success. Even though it is indeed infuriating that her cancer was missed for so many months, at least you can be reassured now that she is in good hands and that they will be doing everything they can to treat her. I hope that you and your siblings can support one another through these challenging times. 

    It's great you are trying to spread awareness of misdiagnoses and it's really sad your mum was misdiagnosed all this time. At Cancer Research UK, we are fighting to improve early diagnosis and if you're interested you can read more about our early diagnosis initiative 

    I hope that your mum's surgery and treatment go well and that things quickly improve for her. We're thinking of you and your siblings during this difficult time.

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

     

  • I fully understand where you are coming from. I had hardly visited my doctor in years when i turned 50 i was told i should go on blood pressure tablets. Fast forward 9 years of feeling ill i took myself off then and my nlood pressure is normal. The foctor insisted me staying on yhem but had a very bad reaction when he increased my dose. He said I had health anxiety. I was having phone appintments every week telling him i couldnt live like yhis and all the symptoms. During a screening i was found to have a tumour on my bowel. I told my doctor I had no faith in him. Even the fact he said I had health anxiety when on the nhs page for amlodipine tablets all my symptoms were there. 

    I am in the angry stage now. Angry at my doctor and angry at cancer and the way its changed my life. I am 4 weeks post op after having the tumour removed. I have been told they caught it early and no spread. 

    The fact that they are operating on your mum is a very good sign. If your mums had spread they wouldnt operate first.

    I hope your mum makes a goid recovery.