Just curious but my elderly mother looks after my dad at the moment who has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer and he is bed bound with some confusion and lack of mobillity in legs. She has just been offered Marie Curie carers, they will come round to help look after him for free (overnight and 1 hour in morning) due to him only having weeks left to live. I have thought of moving in and helping out too for when the carers aren't there, rather than just coming over every so often like I do now. If I lived at the house too would this mean my mother wouldn't get her carers help any more ?
I think my mum, and me too, are a bit concerned because the carers are free that if I moved in she would lose that carer help, I don't know if she is only getting a carer because she lives alone (apart from my dad of course) or if Marie Curie send carers regardless. So my question really is, do Marie Curie care if multiple adult members of the household are living there in the house ? I thought someone here might already know.
Thanks !!