Mother diagnosed with Early Stage Breast Cancer

Hello, this is my first post to the forum. My mum recently went for a mammogram before our holiday to Spain. We came back to England expecting that she'd get the results later in the day however mum and nan both had contracted Covid-19 which meant that she had to wait for a later date to have her appointment for the results.

She went to the hospital today and got diagnosed with Early Stage Breast Cancer. She said the tumor was so small that she could barely see it but will need to have an MRI soon and the doctor wants her to have more tests run instead of taking it out?

Please forgive my ignorance but first question: Even if it is so small why can't they take the tumor out early? Wouldn't that stop the cancer from getting worse?

Of course cancer wasn't off the table as my nan had breast cancer too but in the opposite breast to my mum, it's still a shock to know that my mum. The woman who I love so dearly who would go out on a limb for is having to go through cancer?

I'm so worried for her and I know she says not to worry but I'm just so full of emotions that I don't know how to express properly. 

Second question: Since my nan and mum both have had/have breast cancer does that make it even more likely that my sister and myself will get it?

Third question: Is there anything I can do to help my mum or fundraise for CRUK (that doesn't involve running a marathon. )

Thank you for reading and I wish everyone a good day, 

V

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  • Hello Mummys_boy and a warm welcome to Cancer Chat, 

    I am really sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis. It's reassuring news though that the tumour has been caught early and that the tumour was so small it could barely be seen. It's good that they are being thorough and that they are doing all these tests even though it will undeniably be a stressful time for you all in the midst of all this uncertainty. 

    I am not sure why they can't take the tumour out early or what treatment plan they have decided for your mother but I am sure you can trust the experts to have made the best possible decision for her. It may be that they want to look at things in more detail by having this MRI and other tests done before making a decision. Feel free to give our cancer nurses a call on this free number 0808 800 4040 if you would like to talk things through with them and ask them any questions. Their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

    It shows how much you care about your mum that you are so worried for her but it sounds like the cancer was caught early and that she will be I am sure in very capable hands and will be offered the most suitable treatment. 

    Keep us updated if you can on what you find out and what the next steps might be. Hopefully you will hear from other members of our community who have been in a similar situation before and they will be along shortly to share their story with you. 

    Very best wishes to you and your mum during this anxious time,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

     

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  • Hello Mummys_boy and a warm welcome to Cancer Chat, 

    I am really sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis. It's reassuring news though that the tumour has been caught early and that the tumour was so small it could barely be seen. It's good that they are being thorough and that they are doing all these tests even though it will undeniably be a stressful time for you all in the midst of all this uncertainty. 

    I am not sure why they can't take the tumour out early or what treatment plan they have decided for your mother but I am sure you can trust the experts to have made the best possible decision for her. It may be that they want to look at things in more detail by having this MRI and other tests done before making a decision. Feel free to give our cancer nurses a call on this free number 0808 800 4040 if you would like to talk things through with them and ask them any questions. Their line is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

    It shows how much you care about your mum that you are so worried for her but it sounds like the cancer was caught early and that she will be I am sure in very capable hands and will be offered the most suitable treatment. 

    Keep us updated if you can on what you find out and what the next steps might be. Hopefully you will hear from other members of our community who have been in a similar situation before and they will be along shortly to share their story with you. 

    Very best wishes to you and your mum during this anxious time,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

     

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