Hi everyone, my husband had 3 cancers back in 2019, penial, lymphnode and lung cancer, he then had secondary lung cancer metasized to the liver in 2021 had operation. his pain never went away. after a pet scan back in january this year we was told he had secondary lung cancer in liver again!, husband does not want chemo radio or anything now he 76 with copd athiritus. a doctor came out to access him and the next thing marie curie nurses got in touch went to a meeting at hospice explained he wants to stay at home they told us he got advanced cancer terminal. must say those nurses got his pain management under control in 2 weeks than anyone did  in 4 years, when i tried to ask prognosis she just said he very poorly, he been put on steroids and eating like a horse! he had a scan last week because his stomach big thought it was ascites but turns out not its him eating, dr phoned with results today said his liver enlarged and a cyst appeared but nothin sinister!! said if he was young man would be on diet  but let him eat what he wants, he bathing himself and seems good , it is our ruby anniversary november, do i make arrangements for holiday, no one telling me anything.sorry to rant on people but dont know anything , when i said how will i know when he getting worse because pain killers are working , they just said u will  know.        i myself had urine test for infection said no infection but white cells and blood in urine did another test yesterday waiting for results no one knows keeping it to myself our 4 sons have enough on with dad. just had to write this down people .