Hi everyone 

My mum has had various surgeries to remove tumours but now they have found that the cancer has spread and there's no more surgery to be done. She's going to have chemo to give her some more time but it's not a question of if anymore but when. 

I'm looking for advice about how to get the most out of what time is left and how I can best take care of my mum. I have 2 children who are 12 and 8, I'm yet to tell them Mum has asked me to wait until she has a date for chemo before we worry them. 

I just want to be able to make my mum comfortable so she can enjoy life while she has the chance. I'm aware sometimes it can be years but also it might not be so I just want to rinse every moment I have. 

Thanks for your help.