My husband is 80.  He has been monitored 3 monthly and PSA risen to 12 (6 -20 months ago). He has had an enlarged prostate for many years. GP referred - hospital  where Dr pressurised for MRI and biopsy which he says he won't have. He has had a lot of medical interventions these last 3 years serious head injury and facial reconstruction 3 years ago, closely followed by tonsil cancer (in remission) he is also awaiting surgery for worsening glaucoma.  Despite telling medics he does not wish any tests or treatment if prostate cancer was found, they are now suggesting a bone scan and if any cancer, female hormones.  He has absolutely no symptoms and is feeling better now than he has for ages.  We were planning on resuming our travels now Covid is such a problem.   He says he has had enough of doctors and hospitals and just wants to be left alone. He has reluctantly agreed for appointment and PSA in 3 months just to get them off his back and still says he wouldn't have any tests or treatment.  I fully support whatever he decides, but its  so stressful. Help!