Hi Everyone, just writing this for advice and hear other peoples experience.

My mom today has just been told that her cancer has spread to the liver and the lungs and is untreatable. I had more or less expected something like this ever since she had been diagnosed so it hasn’t come as a massive shock to me but still hurts. When spoke to her tried to see how long roughly doctors gave her but she gave nothing away.Does anyone have any idea how long it can be or even a range  ? She is doing well at the moment but I know with these things you can deteriorate quickly  

I’m 23 and have one brother whose similar age of course it’s terrible for us but I worry much more for my Dad. He’s recently lost his mum who was his best friend a month ago and this news has probably shattered him. This is coupled with the fact both me and my brother will be leaving later this year to begin our graduate jobs in the south of England (currently live in the north) so leaves him by himself At home and im second guessing on whether to take the job or stay put for him.

Has anyone ever experienced anything similar ? Or got any advice or anything this page feels like such a great community for it