Hi everyone,
I'm not quite sure how to word this but I need to ask for some advice to get it off my chest.
My mum didn't let me have the HPV vaccine at school and I kind of forgot about it until another girl from my school that refused the vaccine now has cervical cancer.
She is only 24 and I am so shocked as I know having the vaccine makes it A LOT less likely to get cervical cancer but does it mean that I am likely to get it also?
I have been with my partner for 5 years, and prior to him I had two other sexual partners who had other sexual partners before.
I know I probably have certain kinds of hpv, but I'm worried that if my partner and me both have HPV now... Does this mean my body cannot clear it and I am likely to get the cancer? And should I get the vaccine (or is it pointlessly too late)?
I am trying not to get worked up but I am so upset for her. She has told me she can no longer have children which breaks my heart for her. What advice should I give her? Will I be in the same situation and should I think of having children earlier?
So many questions. I just wish when I was 12 my mum didn't refuse me the vaccine.