Mastectomy next week. Worried

Hi ,

I have my mastectomy next week with immediate reconstruction. I ve finished my chemo 6 weeks ago and felt great all the way through , really positive. My initial mammogram and ultrasound showed no abnormalities in the lymph nodes but I ve got myself so worried that it's spread everywhere and can t stop myself googling. I m having a sentinel node biopsy in the operation. Can anyone give me some advice or more importantly tell me to stop worrying !!! Difficult I know. Thanks 

Debbie

 

  • Hi Debbie and thanks for posting

    Hopefully you will get some replies from people who have been through something similar, although of course, everyone will have a different experience.

    It's good that you coped well with chemotherapy , but it's not surprising as surgery comes closer, that you are worrying about this next stage and possibly what the results may show.

    It was good news that there weren't initial signs of cells in the nodes and although surgery does sometimes comes up with different results, you have completed a course of chemotherapy which if there had, by any chance been any trace of cells in nodes, hopefully the chemo will have treated these.

    Googling, though tempting won't be able to give you any information as to what may or may not be found and can only raise your anxiety further, so if you can, and I know it's easy to say, it may be an idea to stop.

    Keep well and and rest and reserve your energy for the surgery and recovery. You can read more about your operation and recovery here  

    If you have any queries ,at any time,  please do also give us a ring here on the helpline-  the number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    I hope all goes well for you with your recovery

    All the best

    Wanda

  • Hi. I had my mastectomy 3 weeks ago...yes..a bit sore afterwards...but all ok.... dont worry..you'll be in good hands.

    Machrie

  • Thank you Wanda. That helped a great deal and I ve also just read the book. 

  • Hi Machrie

    Thank u for that. Did you have reconstruction too and were drains left in ??