Sick with anxiety

I am making myself physically ill with anxiety waiting for results of tests. I have a lobular breast cancer - about 13mm on ultrasound- and two positive lymph nodes. I'm prepared for surgery and anything else they want to throw at me but I can't stop convincing myself it'll be stage 4. My nurse told me it's highly unlikely because I only have 2 positive nodes and it tends to travel through those first but I won't let myself believe it. I just need some sort of reassurance. Thank you for listening xx 

  • Hello and thank you for your post.

    I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis of breast cancer, I can appreciate you have some concerns.

    I am afraid that it is not possible for anyone here to tell you what your risk of having an advanced cancer is, this is because we are not involved in your care. However, I do think that because your breast care nurse is involved in your care and knows so much more about your situation that she is able to give you the best information about this.  Therefore I would trust in what she says - that it is highly unlikely that your cancer will have spread.   

    Once you have had surgery much more will be known about your situation; your lymph nodes will be checked.  It is good that so far the ultrasound scan (which is a really useful scan) can only detect cancer in two lymph nodes.  

    I hope the surgery goes well and please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Take care,

    Caroline 

  • Thank you very much Caroline, I appreciate your support xx

  • You will be fine. As humans we think the worst and it won't be. 

  • Hi, I wonder how are you now? which procuderes did you have and how was it? 

  • Hi 

    I just thought I'd let you know that as the last post was some time ago, you may not hear back from Mum1409 - people don't always come back to the forums once they have initially posted.

    If you have any queries about yourself or would like a chat , please do give us a call - Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    All the best

    Wanda