Grandsons birthday but he has chicken pox

My grandson is 7 on Tuesday but he has chicken pox. I have terminal cancer and have just finished a second cycle of chemotherapy 4 weeks ago. I’m very careful and wear a mask if I do go out which is rare but I’m very torn about my best boy. I am thrilled to be here for his birthday. I would love some advice please. Thank you 

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  • Hi there and thanks for the post

    I am sorry to hear about your situation. I appreciate how important it is for you to see your grandson on his birthday but at the same time it is important to protect yourself as well.

    It is usually best to avoid being in the same room as someone with chicken pox or any other infectious illness whilst having chemo, when your immune system is low.

    I understand how disappointing this may be for both you and your grandson but perhaps you can do a video call on Tuesday and arrange a little celebration at a later date when he is no longer infectious.

    I hope this helps but do feel free to contact your chemo unit or specialist nurse to get their opinion if you wish.

    Do get back in touch anytime or if you would like to talk things through further over the phone contact us on 0808 800 4040, we're here weekdays 9-5.

    Best wishes

    Naomi

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  • Hi there and thanks for the post

    I am sorry to hear about your situation. I appreciate how important it is for you to see your grandson on his birthday but at the same time it is important to protect yourself as well.

    It is usually best to avoid being in the same room as someone with chicken pox or any other infectious illness whilst having chemo, when your immune system is low.

    I understand how disappointing this may be for both you and your grandson but perhaps you can do a video call on Tuesday and arrange a little celebration at a later date when he is no longer infectious.

    I hope this helps but do feel free to contact your chemo unit or specialist nurse to get their opinion if you wish.

    Do get back in touch anytime or if you would like to talk things through further over the phone contact us on 0808 800 4040, we're here weekdays 9-5.

    Best wishes

    Naomi

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