Possible faking cancer. Need advice.

Such a long drawn out story. To date this person says she has 2  brain tumours, 4 inches in size, both aggressive and been like this around 3 months, tells parents it’s shrinking. It’s gone from same as my husband base of skull non operable, to possible shunt fitting, to shaving her hair before the diagnosis for tummy cancer, from cervical cancer had a child tummy cancer had another child , using cold cap, secret treatments, no letters, no shared appointments, all secrets. A Dr who was NHS to come all the way just for this person to local hospital when all other patients have to travel to the brain tumour specialist hospital , the drs do not travel to patients. Iv asked. This dr also funds holidays and now after I asked questions is all of a sudden private.

Nothing she says adds up, why not share your journey with loved ones and get support , 4 children who she says does not need support when she chats openly in front of kids who thinks mummy is dying. Munchausing , and munchasing by proxy. Mental illness as kids have everything wrong with them. My husband tumour is slowly growning , he works , he’s positive, and shares his journey and everything he says, shower are all true.

As a family haw or where do we go as now I’m the bad person for asking questions and being supportive and telling family to look more closely as what’s said cus it ain’t right. Am I the one who not ok, going crazy. ????? 

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  • Hello Lasly and thank you for your post.

    I am sorry to hear about your husband. I can understand that this must be hard for you both.

    I can't really comment on the person you know who claims that they have cancer but I would try not to engage in conversation about this as it is really her situation and it is really not for anyone to comment on. It sounds like she needs help and support.

    I wish you all the best,

    Catherine

  • Thankyou for reply, it’s a sad situation. She defo needs some sort of help. We’re currently looking for a Dr K or C who is said to be funding their holidays,  also funds a special nurse To go on the holiday to give chemotherapy. We as a family are gunna keep looking as it’s not ok for a dr to fund one person and not another. Once again Thankyou. Xx

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  • Thankyou for reply, it’s a sad situation. She defo needs some sort of help. We’re currently looking for a Dr K or C who is said to be funding their holidays,  also funds a special nurse To go on the holiday to give chemotherapy. We as a family are gunna keep looking as it’s not ok for a dr to fund one person and not another. Once again Thankyou. Xx

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