Hello MrsBlueSky and thanks for your post,

I am sorry to hear that your husband is having chemo on Wednesday. It does sound like you have been amazing in how you are helping support him as his 'duty driver'.

I can understand that there do not seem to be many links that are relevant to you as a carer but you could look at the links that are related to your husband going through treatment and help support him by looking at the different tips.

Trying to stay as physically active as possible whilst going through treatment is so important. Even taking a short walk each day can be beneficial. Maybe first thing whilst the weather is so hot.

Encouraging your husband to drink plenty of fluid throughout the day. He should try to aim to drink 2-3 litres of fluid particularly just before the chemotherapy and a couple of days afterwards. This helps to flush the drugs through his liver and kidneys. Small frequent meals with plenty of fruit and vegetables is usually recommended.

If your husband is feeling a bit nauseous then it can sometimes help to nibble on a biscuit. Herbal teas can also help.

It is a good idea to have a thermometer in the house so if your husband is feeling unwell then it is a good idea to see if he has a temperature.

Your husband should have a helpline number so if he is feeling unwell then it is important to know who to contact even if it is in the middle of the night. I would try and have the helpline number in a visible place such as on the fridge.

It is fine to have double duvet if that is something that you usually have.

I would encourage any friends or family not to visit if they have an infection as your husband maybe more susceptible to picking up infections.

It may also be helpful to help keep a symptom diary for the first few weeks to monitor any side effects. Your husband will be given medication to help control any symptoms but he will be reviewed before each treatment and sometimes his medication may need to be adjusted depending on how he has been.

We have various links such as being physically active ,everyday life between chemotherapy treatments, eating a varied diet.

It is also important that you take regular breaks. if there is someone that can take him to the occasional treatment sessions or if someone helps you with any shopping or cooking I would accept any help.

Usually when you know what to expect things will become easier and you will get in to more of a routine.

We are here if either of you want to talk any of this through with one of the helpline nurses. The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm.

All the best,

Catherine