Weight loss and night sweats drenched through ongoing issue

I've not been diagnosed with cancer however I know I'm dealing with a few red flags that are not resolving or getting better and no doctor taking me seriously which ive complained about and made a complaint of neglect I feel let down and belittled, the doctors know I'm high risk of cancer the symptoms first started in my early 20,s with some tingling,in my hands,feet, body that are still ongoing. Had test nerve function was fine, again baffling,then I'd get pain,stiffness,muscles discomfort had many treatments,physio,for my isdues,like myofacial release that didnt work, physio so many times no joy,constant infections, no matter how many times ive had treatments,weight loss, night sweats,day sweats,luje soaked through even on a cold day,im like wth, had my hormones checked,im constantly anemic,that no iron tablets,help, i was on the bus for instance and came over all exhausted full blown i just felt so so tired and i had a good nights sleep,looking pale,,finding sores on my foot toe, and leg, that keep appearing  constantly peeing,i do drink water,tea,not sure if ts that,i had diabetes check many times, intence itching everyday that wont budge,then as I got into my 30,s I was getting worst still getting night sweats,losing weight despite eating,losing my voice,a horsy voice heartburn that gaviscon don't fix, I find random bruises,cuts,bites take a long time to heal,get deep bone nausea that no cyclazine is it called didn't help, severe pain in my body that hurt so bad I rang 111. I vomited non stop due to pain it left me bedbound i couldn't lift my head,eat,drink,watch a film,I basically had to drag my legs as they hurt to, I was shivering so bad, I told the doctors this i felt like I was talking to myself im treated like im crazy and not one doctor took my symptoms seriously, how can a 41 woman have all bloods normal apart from the anemia  but yet still suffer ive take vitamins,but Nedd to get more, my brother even said to me who I live with said the colours gone out of my face, I don't kniw what I'd do without my brother he said something not right with so I said you can tell the doctors that, my heart even affected,despite being on medication, my lungs, i have asthma but feel theres more going on,bladder issues all ongoing,  my physiotherapy said it sounds like it's systematic they've been amazing and even said go to a snd e but I just get sent away, my dad unfortunately seen me ill u have these scary episodes that floored me yet no one listens, ive seen a rheumatologist for lupus the Dr said everything OK, so I requested a second opinion at another hospital Manchester, I get recurring fevers,I get ill so quick snd it'd not a nice feeling, I'm so miserable but not depressed I keep busy can't do to much now I get exhaustion so quickly, have to do things slowly,,I've spoken to start for my mental health, I've asked why is the doctor not referring me for more test. Useless is the word, and didsapointed,I get headaches to, I even had pneumonia, it's so scary, I get bloated easily even small meals, my tummy hurts, when I was for the colposcopy is it called due to high abnormal cells, on smear ok luckily, I mentioned to the lovely nurse about my weight loss again and bloated severe tummy that's distended and uncomfortable,,I got a letter that the specialist as requested for a uss scan, I assume because of what I told the nurse its got back to the endometriosis dr who's also going to do a diagnostic laparoscopy, as I've also suffered with heavy painful periods, since I was 16 which made me so ill, I've struggled to gain weight no matter how much I eat, I take photos now as proof, which would be helpful for doctors, my friend even said I'm to skinny and shown him my back hiw skinny it looks,it's horrible, I have been referred to a nutritionist 

  • Plus red pinprick,the doctor said it doesent look serious, sorry but ive no faith in doctors anymore I know there's some lovely doctors though, I have to advocate for myself 

  • Hello and thank you for posting,

    I am so sorry you are feeling this way and have done for a long while. It is so hard when we know we do not feel well and so far and answer has not been found. It is also important to remember if you can that many different things can go on in the body that aren't to do with cancer and many symptoms overlap. But I know this isn't easy.

    However we are not doctors here, we can not diagnose you, so do continue talk things through with the doctors involved.

    The Patients Association have good advice on making the most of doctors appointments.

    It sounds like you are waiting to see some different health professionals at the moment, so hopefully they will be able to work out for you what is going on.

    Take care and if you want to talk this through with the nurses on the helpline do call 0808 800 4040. Lines are open mon-fri, 9-5.

    Sarah.