Anxiety over asbestos in child’s crafts

I have extreme OCD that focuses a lot on contamination and asbestos at the moment.

I have had the house checked multiple times, spoken with multiple surveyors and recently had a test in my son’s room last week on a textured ceiling despite two surveyors stating it did not need testing (came back negative).

However, more recently some play sand my son plays with has tested positive for 0.001% trace level or tremolite asbestos.

It has been all over my house. I have thrown out so many toys, chairs, tables and now hoovers. I have washed socks covered in the pink sand and then flung them in the dryer. He has been playing with the sand since February 2025 last year and I make a lot of craft and sensory trays for him.

As the sand gets everywhere, I am still finding tiny little specs of it everywhere as I’ve become hyper vigilant in noticing them. I have found the tiniest grain of pink sand in my 

I don’t care about myself so much but what are my son’s risks here? 
He has played with it, rolled, crushed it with tools, poured it all over his head!

My mental heath cannot take it anymore. I’m convinced he’s going to be diagnosed with terminal cancer. I have a cleaner who has likely hoovered small areas where it’s remained then can’t be seen like skirting boards. Do I have to tell Her?

Everywhere online tells me that the risk is low.  But if that’s the case why did entire schools shut down in Australia for professional cleaning and air testing???

  • Hello and thanks for posting

    Many people worry when they think they or their children may have been exposed to asbestos.

    The amount of asbestos that was found in the play sand is tiny (0.001%) and is thought to be too low to cause harm. Even though your son played with the sand a lot, this is still short‑term, low‑level exposure, which is highly unlikely to cause asbestos‑related diseases.

    Asbestos is still a very common substance and most people are exposed to a very small amount of asbestos fibres in their lives and yet asbestos related diseases are rare. So if you can, try not to be overly worried. It is regular occupational exposure to asbestos over many years that is known to increase the risk of lung disease and cancer, often two or three decades later.

    It's worth bearing in mind that practically everyone is exposed to asbestos and that low levels are present in our environment as it can be found in air and soil and yet very few people become ill. 

    You can read more about asbestos exposure on the British Lung Cancer Foundation website.

    It's a personal choice whether you tell your cleaner but her risk is minimal.

    From what I’ve read Australian schools were closed by the authorities because some children’s play sand was found to contain tiny traces of asbestos. Even though early tests showed the risk of fibres becoming airborne was extremely low, schools shut so specialists could safely remove the sand, clean affected areas, and test the air before anyone returned. This was done purely as a precaution only.

    I hope this helps and remember you can always ring your GP if you still feel concerned. I wonder if you have any support with managing your OCD. If you haven't or if you feel it's getting worse then do speak to your GP when you get the chance.

    Best wishes,

    Celene