Hi there Saloon81 and thanks for getting in touch

I am very sorry to hear about your dad, this must be such a difficult time for him and for you.

It sounds like the doctors are limited as what they can do for him due to the other health issues he has. I'm afraid treatments can sometimes cause more harm than good. However I do appreciate how upsetting this can be to know there is little that can be done to help him.

Many people struggle with knowing what to say to their loved one at time like this. It all depends on the relationship you have with your dad but it is okay to say you don't know what to say. The important thing is to let him know you are there for him in whatever way he needs you to be, if you are able to be, that is.

We have some information on how to support someone with cancer on the about cancer section of the website, this may be helpful so do take a look.

If you have friends and other family members around you then do also speak to them about this situation and how this is making you feel so they can also support you at this time.

It is difficult to know what the next few weeks and months may look like so try and take things one step at a time for now.

Do ask your dad, other members of the family or the medical team involved any questions you may have to get a better understanding.

We are here if you wish to get back in touch or if you prefer give us a call on 0808 800 4040, monday-friday 9-5.

Take care

Naomi

Thank you so much for replying! This week has just been an absolute blur!