Hi, my Dad (90) had bowel cancer 6-7 years ago which was treated and he has been having regular treatment and scans since. Just found out he was told the cancer had come back a few months ago and has been on medication to fight it and 6 weekly scans. He doesn't want me to know but my brother has just told me that at the latest scan last Friday the cancer has spread to bones lymph nodes and prostate and they have said no point continuing with the medication or having chemo.
I am devastated but he does not want me to know its so severe (I'm 55 but he still thinks of me as his little girl who he doesn't want to get upset..). Apparently his "levels had jumped from 70ish to over 100". What does that mean? What is the general prognosis/average life expectancy? I am supposed to be going overseas on holiday on Thursday for a week but will cancel if this can move to palliative care quickly.
Thank you in advance.