Hello Ken and thanks for posting

I'm sorry to read about your situation. It's understandable to be frightened by the thought of using a catheter and being incontinent, especially when you are so active and independent.

Choosing radiotherapy, or even stepping away from treatment altogether are not decisions to rush or take lightly. Degarelix alone can often keep the cancer under control for a while, but it's usually not a cure. Some men do choose hormone treatment alone, especially if quality of life is a major concern. But this does come with the risk of the cancer becoming resistant further down the line.

I think it is important that you discuss this further with your specialist team . Talking to the team of doctors and nurses involved in your care can be the most helpful as they know all about your individual cancer as they are familiar with all your medical details. Talking to family or friends can also be useful.

You may find it helpful to know that Prostate Cancer UK have an online forum and you may find it helpful talking to other men going through similar things and hear about their different experiences. 

I hope this is of some help, Give us a ring if you would like to talk anything over. The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

Kind regards,

Celene