Hi there lisalou24 and thanks for the post

I am sorry to hear about your mum. This sounds like a really difficult time for you both and I can appreciate you wanting to know what the coming days and weeks may look like.

Unfortunately without being involved directly in your mum's care it is difficult for us to be able to comment on how long your mum may have left.

Everyone is different which is why it is best to be guided by the nurses and doctors involved in your mums care. I think once the community nurses are popping in regularly they will be in a position to let you know when the time has come to consider transferring her to the hospice.

We have some information about the final days of life on the website that mentions some things that may happen but often there will be a slow decline in health over a number of weeks. Sleeping more to the point of not leaving their bed, eating and drinking less and all bodily systems slowing down.

If you haven't already do try and encourage your mum to suck ice lollies or pineapple chunks as this can help with a dry mouth as well as sipping drinks regularly.

Of course if you notice a sudden change in your mum in the coming days do let her doctor know so they can assess her. If they think necessary they can contact the hospice to enquire about a bed.

I hope this is helpful, do get back in touch if you have further questions. You are also very welcome to call us on 0808 800 4040 weekdays 9-5 if you prefer to speak to one of us over the phone.

Take care

Naomi