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Mo89
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Hi there 

l am terrified! I had tests done for suspected TB and ended up with an xray and ct scan showing some issues with my lymph nodes in my neck and my right breast showing enlarged node I think from what I was told. I was told my referral to the breast clinic was urgent and would be seen in two weeks and it’s been three weeks now and nothing from the hospital. I have been chasing my GP separately too and they have said they will push for a referral if their own and I should be referred to the RDC clinic to do a full investigation. I’m stressed and worried that I have lost faith in professionals trying to sort basic things like referrals and appointments all whilst I’m stressed out. Nobody wants to tell me anything and o keep chasing but I’m not getting anywhere.

I know I don’t have any answers yet but I can help fearing the worst or thinking that professionals just don’t care.  

  • Hello and thanks for your post,

    I am sorry to hear that you are concerned about your health. It can be so unsettling waiting for appointments.

    Unfortunately no one can tell you very much until you have been seen in the breast clinic.

    The majority of women who are referred under the urgent referral don't end up with a cancer diagnosis but it is important to rule this out. Lymph nodes can be raised for all sorts of reasons including infection so try if you can to keep an open mind.

    I do hope that you hear from the clinic soon. Hopefully with the help of the GP also pushing for a referral you should hear from the hospital soon.

    I do hope all will be okay. Do give the nurses a ring on the helpline if you would like to talk things through. The number to ring is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm.

    All the best,

    Catherine

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