Worried about my dad. He's having problems urinating and lost his appetite

Hi. My dad has been having problems urinating for a while. Sometimes he can go and sometimes he can’t, but he has to strain a lot. He is 75. Lately he has lost his appetite and I have read that this is a sign that the cancer has spread to the liver. With the 3 symptoms he has does this mean he definitely has prostrate cancer that has mestatacised. 

  • Hello and thanks for posting

    I’m sorry you are worried about your dad's current symptoms and can understand you wanting to find out more.

    The prostate gland enlarges as men get older and urinary symptoms are quite common and may have nothing to do with cancer. But, I'm afraid we are unable to diagnose or tell anyone if anything is the matter. Symptoms can often have straightforward medical explanations. But only a doctor can make a medical assessment so we always encourage people to make an appointment see their GP if their symptoms are persisting. Doctors are trained to assess symptoms and can arrange tests if they feel it’s necessary to try to find out what might be going on. 

    I hope your dad knows more about his situation soon. Please get back to us if you need any more information or support. You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline. The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Kind regards,

    Celene