Hello and thanks for posting

I'm sorry to read about your dad's situation. This must be a difficult time for you all.

Hairy cell leukaemia is a chronic condition that doesn’t go away. But it does develop slowly, and most people still have a normal life expectancy. Treatment is usually very successful at controlling it. You can read more about hairy cell leukaemia on our website.

Perhaps you could gently talk to your parents and let them know that you want to understand more about your dad's condition and ask if it's ok for you to speak to the doctors. Doctors are usually happy to speak to relatives provided they have the patients consent to do so.

People often ask what more can they do to support their parents during this time . But talking and listening and being there when you can are what most people find useful. Sometimes it can be better to ask them what they would find most helpful for you to do for them. They may really appreciate you taking on if you can, more housework, getting shopping in, preparing meals or taking them to hospital appointments.

On our website, we have information about supporting someone with cancer both emotionally and practically  The charity Macmillan Cancer Support have some further information on their website. It's important that you also look after yourself. Macmillan also have information on looking after yourself and how to access support..

I hope this has been of some help. Give us a ring if you would like to talk anything over. The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

Kind regards,

Celene