Anger

My brother has terminal cancer… he has passed the median time his medication will work for him as stated by his oncologist… Recently he is angry all the time. He is really nasty and constantly having digs and picking fights with family members. He is becoming unbearable to be around.. He refuses to get mental health help and says he doesn’t need it. Please can you give me any advice…thanks Michelle

  • Hi there Michelle and thanks for the post

    I am sorry to hear about your brother and how his mood and negative emotions are affecting the people around him. This must be a difficult time for you and appreciate you hoping for some advice about what to do.

    I can only assume that you and other family members have tried to talk this through with him and he isn't listening to you. It may be worth one more attempt at making him aware of his behaviour and how it is affecting other people.

    Failing that you could contact his hospital specialist team or GP to make them aware of these changes and the concerns you have for him. Whilst they can't share any confidential information about your brother they could check in and assess him themselves.

    I hope that your brother gets the help and support he needs at this time but do get back if you have more questions. You are also welcome to call and talk things through over the phone. Our number is 0808 800 4040 and we're here week days 9-5.

    All the best

    Naomi