Hi there. I’m new here and at my minds end. My husband is going through final 2 weeks of radiotherapy for stage 2 nasopharyngeal cancer. He lost 8 kg in the last 2 weeks and nurses keep telling him that this is bad for radiotherapy targeting the right areas if his shake changes. I’m so overwhelmed and confused I don’t know what to do to get him to eat. I’m doing all I can with liquid foods, high calorie shakes etc but he says no. He manages around 500 cals a day, he isn’t skin and bone but losing weight.
my questions, with 1.5 weeks of treatment left will this impact targeting much or can I ease up on nagging him to eat? It’s exhausting. Also post treatment, should I be nagging him more to eat or can I leave it up to him since treatment is done? It’s a constant struggle of trying to get him to eat, I am in this alone and I literally cannot handle it anymore. I just need to know if he continues this way is to dangerous or can I take it easier on myself and stop struggling