Hey there you are not a nuisance you are searching for answers and thats good self care stratergy! 

Re pain ....i think talk to one of the cancer nurses on this help site would be a good plan amd or your gp....pain is not a have to put up with .....ask for help asap

Accidents at night time ....can you try using pads or pants at night time ? No need to feel embarrassed its a practical solution and saves a lot of having to change night clothes bedding etc .....they are readily available ( supermarket or amazon can deliver )

I think a referral to your district nurses would be good step ....Sending you strength 

Keep in touch 

Hi there and thanks for posting

I am sorry to hear about the past treatment you had and the symptoms you are currently experiencing.

I'm afraid no one here can say what may be causing these symptoms but we would suggest you arrange an appointment with your GP to discuss.

They can assess you and arrange further tests to find out more, so get in touch with them when you can.

I hope you know more and start to feel more comfortable soon.

Best wishes

Naomi

Thankyou for the prompt reply it means a lot