Child cancer stage 4

Hi my great grandson Of three years old has had a tumour  in his abdomen  last  year  they took it out in December  sent the tumour off For a biopsy and it's come back a At stage 4 cancer. But a lot of things do Do.not add up

 I was told that it' Started in his kidney. Then went to the  abdomen where they just took it out. Now its gone to the lungs. And is at stage 4 

.  My grandson split up  from the  mother of my Great grandson and the mother's telling my grandson. All this information and I really don't Know What cancer? My great-grandson has full stop as my ex grandsons. Girlfriends, I don't think she is telling him everything. She told us that the hospital phones last week and told her he had staged for cancer over the phone.  That is this true, or would I have called in? But I think she's pushing my grandson away. So therefore, he doesn't know everything and they're not telling me anything. Because I ask too many questions and being noisy. I just want help to understand what my the political fellow's going through he. It doesn't seem ill, but I've not been allowed to see.  And I won't be able to sing. I asked if I could send him some toys for when he goes in hospital. She's refused to send me his address. Is there nothing I can do to find out when he goes into hospital? If I can send something to him as.They're not telling me anything and I'm really. Really concerned and I just like more information. And how can I find out what is true and what is not true?

  • Hello and thanks for your post,

    I am very sorry to hear about your situation. What a very tricky time you are having.

    It is very difficult to know how to advise you as any hospital would respect the privacy of the mother of your great grandson.

    I only hope that as time goes on you are able to find out more.

    Do let your grandson know how keen you are to send something to his son and he maybe able to pass it on.

    As a charity we don't have access to any patient's records but I can understand how frustrating this must be for you all.

    I do wish you all the best,

    Catherine