Hello and thanks for posting

I'm sorry to read about your husband's recent diagnosis and can appreciate this has been quite a shock for you both.

There are many different types of blood cancers and I'm afraid we can't say why your husband has been advised by his consultant not to go on holiday right now as we are not involved in his clinical care. Only his consultant or one of the team can explain this as they are familiar with all your husband's medical details. If he has a specialist haematology nurse (CNS) involved in his care then perhaps they can provide you with further information. You often have to call and leave them a message and they will get back to you.  

People often experience a whole range of emotions when they’re diagnosed with cancer. And family and friends often go through similar emotions. There’s really no right or wrong way to feel. But we know that talking can often relieve some of the distress and anxiety. There's some useful advice on Macmillan Cancer Support's website on talking more openly about cancer. Your husband may just need more time to find his own way of coping and you may find over time that he begins to settle and may start confiding in friends. It's also important that you look after yourself when supporting your husband.

I hope this has been of some help. Give us a ring if you would like to talk anything over. The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

Kind regards,

Celene