Last days

My dad was diagnosed in March with Lung Cancer. It has spread very quickly and we are now eol. He has had a catheter and syringe driver since Saturday evening. He has been asleep since basically. He has all the signs but I just don't how much longer I can take watching him, waiting for something to happen that I really don't want. I the might have passed by now, how long does this last bit usually last?

  • Hi there and thanks for posting

    I am very sorry to hear about your dad, this must be such a difficult and upsetting time for you.

    At the end of life everyone is different but generally speaking when people are sleeping most of the time and are no longer eating or drinking the body systems will gradually shut down. In most cases it will only be a matter of days but for some it may go on for a little longer.

    The nurses involved in your dad's care should be able to give you a better idea when your dad is getting closer to the end.

    I do hope you have other family and friends to support you at this time.

    Take care of yourself

    Naomi